You look at each other when you kiss…
you build a Moroccan tent in the living room and feed each other..what ever it takes
You can fall asleep in each others arms..
There is the old vow "I will support you threw sickness and health" sure if your dying, or healthy?? but how does that apply if you are slowly dieing inside everyday? from stress, from work, from boredom at home...so your only supposed to care for your partner if they are sick and dying, or healthy? stupid vow if you ask me.
The vow should read " I will be your strength, your passion and your enlightenment everyday, in some small way, including during sickness and health"
This was a season. Gratitude.
But what I gained was: Family, Passion,A lesson, Gratitude in a Season, and Comfort.
A Reason, A Season, A Lesson Or a lifetime...
My past big 5's apply ..the lifetime is yet to come
As Special K( friend of mine) would say..
Then Move the fuck on...Life is too short not to laugh love and learn.
This is hard when you are going threw all the emotions..Its even harder when you feel like you met your soul mate and the timing is wrong...or its one sided. But think of it this way, if that's the case, maybe you put yourself in a situation blindly and did not have your eyes wide open. It happens, we should always listen to our inner voice. If its right it will be, or as the saying goes, "He's Just Not That Into You" another question...Are you being genuine to yourself? Look at that first. For one of my closest friends, she was not- and this led into heartbreak.
Personalty I think sometimes my inner voice can go fuck themselves. It is usually after the fact.
Like this past month.
That's hard shit to hear..and I have been on the receiving end as well. It sucks.
When you meet someone who is right for you, it just works out-nothing else matters..the world can carry on. I believe this happens, I really do.
Have you ever met someone where there was not a single thing you would change? There quirks and irritating habits become something you are accustomed to, you actually miss the ice cold feet on the side of your leg at night, you miss laughing hysterically because you felt a light wind on your backside. These are people in love, this is what it looks like. What some call faults, you call humor.
I can say this happened once with me. It is a nice feeling. The best part of that person is we cared to much about each other that when we did decide to separate it was more of a release than anything else, We remain friends today. I think deep down I knew he was a bible thumper..and that time I did listen to my inner voice.
There is allot of relationships in my life currently where I love both of the people in the relationship-
however they are unhappy together, or in the process of living co-habitually for children, or leaving, or simply unhappy and it shows. This makes me sad.
Lucky for me, my X husband met someone after my divorce who posed as the perfect stepmother, and rather then meet her threw my x husband, she just stepped up to the plate. In the long run this created more people to love and nourish my children and lay a good foundation for my children's future.
Something me and my husband could have possibly failed in doing so together as a UN happy couple.
It is so very important for children to see and feel love in the home.They base their future relationships on what they see. I was alone for many years, but I always showed love and made our home a good one.
On that note..
I hope this spring everyone sees love for what it truly is.