Lemon Meringue Pie & A Pychotherapist

  Its Done “I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I've become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate, or create a bubble of mistrust. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that’s why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give...

I am not sure if it was the full moon, or its just Vancouver in Spring, but this spring I have to rely on the stories of my girlfriends for the wacky world of dating. I am off Pof,  and Facebook. I had some dating sites up that I don't remember pass codes for to delete, match.com and OKcupid, I think these were vacant profiles, no info no picture. For research purpose only. I love how I still get the odd message that says, I really love your style and there is no picture or write up. Tonight I picked some women and their dating stories to share. More of a awareness blog post. I have also recently been back to dating.  In my upheaval of a life right now..it was random and odd how it happened. Just a handful of dates that have all been great dates! I don't have one thing to write about! lol, I do know I have much change going on, it is alot of work and excitement and a date here and there just makes it all more exciting, can you define what is a good date from a bad one? I...

Donations, storage and the division of items continues on. Meanwhile...In Nepal...Please take a moment to read the donation section at the end of this blog. I did two car loads to Developmental Disabilities. I took 6 large recycle bins of clothing to the consignment store in the US, My friend thinks Ill make a mint!:) I set aside a box of items for my school I work at. Gave a box to a single dad awhile ago. My son will be taking many large items and a small section of my kitchen items- this is a relief. I think the best part of downsizing, is giving ..Just saying. It has been a whirl of a weekend! moving, social gatherings and outings, emails conversations and group involvements. I finally feel like I am going on a adventure. I worked out a arrangement with my storage facility to still sell any big ticket items from the storage bin, so I can downsize my unit when the time is right-YAY! I had some people on Craig's list respond to some of my items for sale, one women,...

So to set out on my grand adventure of being a suitcase boarder and 365 days rent free, I clearly had to unload some baggage, you cant take a entire home with you. A fresh start with old stuff in a storage locker is not a fresh start, its a occurrence of memories you sooner rather forget. We are the directors of our own life, and we can paint any picture we want...You just have to believe it. OK so, I really thought about my brand new bed, and well it is going into storage, I think I only had sex in it a few times, maybe twice. with the same person, who I still love and adore, so there are no bad memories with the bed, new linens will happen clearly afterward. I will need one dresser and I am taking my cherry mahogany pub table. The rest is bins of stuff that I have sorted and pillaged and really decided on what stayed and what went. My sewing studio I have lugged around for years was cut to a forth of what I had. I had two garage sales and made about 100 bucks, big whoop-u...

What does that mean??? Is it the vows you take on your wedding day? Is it something you say everyday when you hang up the phone, like a routine? A common curtsy when you go to bed? something you blurt out after hot sex? I really love you means; You look at each other when you kiss… You want to kiss forever.. When you have had a bad day, you asked the other person how their day is. I really love you, means you work hard to keep that passion alive…things in this world get comfortable and taken for granted. When you fight, you fight and make up and don't go to bed angry. I really love you means…I would give up my world for you, if I had too. I really love you means…you are my best friend and I correspond with you before anyone or anything else I really Love you means…I support your dreams, and you mine, even when we are apart And if you cant find your dream right now…you make a small one up… you build a Moroccan tent in the living room and feed each other..what e...

45 days till I'm a Suitcase Boarder, 365 Days Rent Free. Packing up and starting over this time, seems stressful..but way easier than any other time. One, I'm not heartbroken. Two, I don't feel attached to any of my stuff. Three I have major support this time. Four, I don't have to worry about any money- because it will be designated for someone else to look after. I just have to worry about work and wellness, sleep and good food. I applied to a over the top contract, that is 5 years with a full benefit package and travel. Probably out of my league, however the highlighted word in the job description stated " Full Training Provided" One of the things I do know now, is I can train in any field. Its funny how someone else can change your perspective in a moment. I saw a girlfriend about a month ago. she called and said I needed to come over. This was totally random. I was having a bad week. We had a in depth conversation about the power of emotion...

You have to be willing to lose everything to gain yourself. So..I will lose everything. Its not easy. Its not Drama. Its Re-birth. These are just materialistic things, and although it seems drastic. It is not. Removing it from my actual lodgings is a pain in the ass, waiting for it to be taken is also painstaking. I will be almost a backpacker. For one year. It is a choice. It is a wise choice. When I start over, it will be fresh. I have lost some of the most important things in my life from 2012 to 2014, this current matter is no big deal. I am following the footsteps of some very important people in my life. My closest friend in the lower main has led a great example on wellness fitness and health. My other friend in the US instills that happiness is still possible no matter what. My Terrace BBF instills Family values and care. With these 3 people in my life including my sons and my mother ( the comical creative goddess) I can scrape away all that I thought was important ...

After all my years of writing on dating in Vancouver, The dating site that is a eye sore and stays the same-POF- Plenty of Fuckers.  There will be no more updates in 2015 from this blogger in regards to POF. Not at least for 6 months anyway. I have continuously stayed on the horrible site all through my past two short lived relationships. I was writing some drafts, which I have promptly deleted. I became slightly more active on the site the last week due to being home sick with boredom. Superbowl week in the states, was a week of full physical training prior to the event, and then I left the states with a horrible sinus cold. This week another full training almost every day, home, running and gym, I find out the cold is in my chest. My trainer has left for South Carolina, and I feel lost with out her, I can't do what I was doing anyway with being sick, but even walking her dog would suffice because she lives quite close to where I live. During the past two weeks, I ...

It was a long battle with Sushi Gurl..and now she sleeps. RIP SUSHI GOLD Sushi was from a litter of 15, she didn't play like the others, in fact she just sat there. I think sushi was a quiet soul for most of her life. Sushi had terminal cancer which started in her tail. It was 2 years of surgeries and medications. Last year she developed a tumor the size of a golf ball, this split open in the middle of the night, we had to have her tail removed. The two years, she received a new bill on life and for the most part she went everywhere with me, Calgary, Terrace, Kamloops, Kelowna. I went to the vet to have her put down with a Dear friend who offered to assist me, I had not seen her for 20 years, After Sushi's tail removal her health went spiraling down, My friend felt Sushi had been threw enough and felt that because she was already diagnosed with cancer really, why should we be paying for more tests. Louise was right. However my vet refused to put her down,...